Preheat oven to 350°F (180°C). Line three 8-inch cake pans with parchment paper.
Soak oats in boiling water for 20 minutes, then cool to room temperature.
Whisk dry ingredients: flour, cinnamon, salt, nutmeg, and baking soda.
Cream butter and sugars for 5 minutes until light and fluffy.
Mix in vanilla, eggs, and sour cream until combined.
Fold in cooled oats, then gently mix in dry ingredients.
Divide batter among pans and bake 20–22 minutes until toothpick shows moist crumbs.
Cool layers in pans, then flip out onto wire rack.
Make frosting: beat butter, add powdered sugar, then cream and vanillas.
Assemble cake with frosting between layers and thin coat on outside.
Prepare glaze: pour hot cream over white chocolate, stir until smooth.
Pour glaze over cake center, let drip down sides, and decorate with cookies.